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Do I love myself “unconditionally”

Dear friends, this is question which I have and pondered, the question I have is “Do I love myself unconditionally / do we love ourselves unconditionally ?”…when I look at my day, sometimes I make myself wrong for what I have done, sometimes when I make myself wrong for what I have failed to do.. and sometimes i feel guilt for being angry with someone.. and the list keeps going on…

When I really pondered over on this question and the flip question of “what is possible when I love myself unconditionally ?” is that , I realized it is the beginning of a new beautiful world …and it is just the beginning…

some of you might want to look at “what is possible ?” when we love ourselves unconditionally ?!..

 

Do I love myself unconditionally

 

 

 

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Expressing or Resisting self expression..!!

The greatest gift for a human being is “self expression” on what we like and what we want to do…!!

The greatest pain of any human being is “not expressing” on what we like and what we want to do …!!

Where is our life…? To which side of the balance our life goes “expressing or resisting expressing”…. Even when we know that we can express ….but we don’t express because of “lack of courage or living others life of imitation” and choose to be in pain… in-spite of knowing expressing is joy and healthy !!…that is perfectly humane in nature !!

 

What is creation ? Are we creating in life ?

What is creation ?….. It varies from person to person..! a new thing / being comes into existence by certain action ( I am not sure if there is something called inaction !!, being not in action is also a way of action !!)…Who can create… every individual creates… is there any moment where there is no creation ?!  every one keeps creating continuously !!, but we may not be present that we are creating…continuously… including reading this blog is a creation (which did not exist before….!!)

What if this creation is “mindfully” created … how our life would be. ?! many times we don’t know what to create..? that is the reason we don’t create mindfully…!! then how do we create mindfully ? ….and one thing is for sure… the level of success is pretty high when we create mindfully ? what is the access for that ??

One of the access ….is “Begin with an end in the Mind” ….that is always begin with a goal… !!

What is a “speech Act” ?… a source of performance

What is a Speech Act?

A speech act is an utterance that serves a function in communication. We perform speech acts when we offer an apology, greeting, request, complaint, invitation, compliment, or refusal. A speech act might contain just one word, as in “Sorry!” to perform an apology, or several words or sentences: “I’m sorry I forgot your birthday. I just let it slip my mind.” Speech acts include real-life interactions and require not only knowledge of the language but also appropriate use of that language within a given culture…. http://carla.umn.edu/speechacts/definition.html

What is most interesting is the utterance  of words alone is not creating the meaning…the background [ CONTEXT ] gives the meaning !!..so I am looking from the performance point of view…how does this matter ?

Who has the context ?….the initiator or the receiver…both…

we might have come across people who uses excellent vocabulary..but their utterance does not make an impact…because the context of initiator and receiver are completely different !.. so what is most important to achieve the performance ?……managing the context in which people take action impacts to a large extent…

that is why language is not only words, it is combination of so many things which include culture, circumstance,  peoples need and so on..the combination of which is a context…and becomes one of the source of performance …!! in terms of relationship, work, health, entertainment…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Life is a miracle

“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as if everything is.” ~ Albert Einstein

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