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Expressing or Resisting self expression..!!

The greatest gift for a human being is “self expression” on what we like and what we want to do…!!

The greatest pain of any human being is “not expressing” on what we like and what we want to do …!!

Where is our life…? To which side of the balance our life goes “expressing or resisting expressing”…. Even when we know that we can express ….but we don’t express because of “lack of courage or living others life of imitation” and choose to be in pain… in-spite of knowing expressing is joy and healthy !!…that is perfectly humane in nature !!

 

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I am a LEGEND…!!…Shine in 2018

The meaning of “legendary” in Cambridge dictionary is “Remarkable enough to be famous; very well known”…

My dear friend, I am unique and I cannot imitate anyone, Even with the best of my efforts to imitate my results are futile and I cannot imitate one….Instead, I strive to polish my own uniqueness, be grateful for my own originality and discover myself continuously to bring out the best with in me and I drop the admiration I seek……which is the my pathway to be a legend and to live a legendary life.!!

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My dear friend, In 2018, Wishing everyone of you.., to shine and be “Remarkable enough to be famous“..in every aspect of your life fulfilling your dreams !!

Where is time ?

Where is time …

……..to do my important things ?

……..to spend time with dear one ?

……..to pursue my dream ?

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………who holds my time ?

……..where is my time ?….the time which I cannot hold myself…who holds my time ?! …. does someone hold my time ?! ..then what is time ?!….

……..Is it a phenomena ? or is it a place holder ….? if it is a place holder … what it holds ??… what it can hold really …? Where is it really ?!

…….What is really left in life ? Where my life is held ? and where my life exists ?!

what if …!? I am OK and you are OK

It is a question that keeps coming very often…the other person is not able to understand whatever the efforts I make to understand….and all my efforts go in vain…what to do !?…

What if ..if the other person is not understanding or not making efforts willfully/not willfully ..but not with an intention to hurt you…but with an intention of doing right things in their own way…

what do we call that …?! I am OK and you are OK…!!

 

Creating our worlds through words

https://isacnewton.wordpress.com/2017/03/25/classifications-of-speech-act-by-john-searle/

This series of communication blogs is get an awareness about the basics of communication, this awareness could help us to have conversations that create a new world in our relationship, performance in the job, in what we want to do and so on..

In the previous blog, I mentioned how Searle classified various speech act, and in this blog, we will see the “direction of fit” in our conversations… there are 3 kinds of direction possible..

  1. Word to World fit –> We use words to fit the existing world, for example “countries have different cultures”, in this culture in countries already exist, and the words we use fit to the world which already exists.
  2. World to Word fit –> “I will call you tomorrow morning by 10.00 AM”, in this sentence the world is fitted / modified to the words (the world “calling ” is modified to call tomorrow )
  3. Words change the world –> A new world is created which did not exist before. example – We will make Planet Mars habitable in the year 2020.! 

Let us see how the direction of fit plays a key role in the classification of acts

Act Type Example sentence Direction of fit S=speaker; X=situation
Representative My wife is not good at cooking Make words fit the world S complains/believes  X  (wife is not good at cooking as TRUE )
Directive Please pass the book Make the world fit word S wants X to be done (Already existing world book is made to pass)
Commissive I commit to solve this problem Make the world fit words S intends X

Speaker himself/herself is committed to some action

Expressive Hurray, we won the match Make words fit the world S feels X

Expressing some feelings

Declaration I baptize you in the name of the father

 

You are promoted as Manager

 

I forgive/accept you

 

Words change the world S causes X

(I found a blog… which may be quite useful …

http://www.gavinjensen.com/blog/reality-and-the-uses-of-language )

we will explore in the next blog…!!!

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